> Should I also blame
Please don't engage in slippery slope arguments.
> I bet you made the same sort of mistakes
No, i didn't, not at that scale. I made mistakes, yes, but none of them come close in scale of long-term impact to drunk driving, seat-belt-less driving or unsafe sex. Simple matter of culture difference. My up-bringing was full of unvarnished explanations about the causation between mistakes and consequences, to the point that this is widely known humor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9z77oztO6UQ
Plus, you keep talking about things unrelated to what i said.
I'm concerned only with seat belts. "One too many drinks" is a thing that's entirely idiotic too, but it doesn't need to be mentioned because the legal repercussions for it in the usa are already huge, as well as the social repercussions. The fact that eschewing seat belts is not treated with similar scorn is the baffling bit here. Nothing else.
After all, risk of head injury in the type of cars young people drive isn't always related to using their safety features. The seatbelt was assumed to cause the most damage in the collision as it caught him and threw his head back into the B pillar.
For what remains: First off, i have not realized any sort of slippery slope i am on. I may not have done the best job in explaining my arguments, but i believe them to be sound. I remarked only on your construction of one.
As for your brother, sorry to hear that. It sounds like the car he was driving should not have been on the streets. In germany we have an institution vested with the power to inspect and verify the safety of a vehicle, and any individual vehicle which does not have an unexpired verification mark from them is illegal to drive in public traffic.
I don't know if you have such a thing in the USA or not, or whether whatever is doing that job is just much too lenient.