It's the beliefs like that which I am talking about. You've built up this imaginary view of the world where every woman is just waiting to catch you out. And that all women demand a red carpet rolled out for them or else they will file a claim against you.
>The person driving a wedge between females and tech is not the males in tech, it's the people spreading this paranoia.
Right, like you who is spreading this fear that they have to constantly be on their toes because the women are out to catch them making a mistake so they can ruin your life.
>It's the people telling women that every man who codes needs to be reeducated before the field is safe for her to enter.
The thing is it isn't every man that needs to be reeducated. Most of us are perfectly fine interacting with any gender. But there is definitely a minority that is a problem and changes to cultures are a problem for them because they act inappropriately.
Your fear is imaginary if you act the way you claim. There is no boogyman out to get you.