Turn your base emotions off for a second and try to use your higher level brain facilities to target the actual root of this.
I'm an african-american in tech. Lots has happened to me. What has ever happened to you such that you can relate?
So, you're emotional.. angry about someone trolling a woman. So, you're going to go on an irrational rampage and fight any man to death who tries to bring clarity to the issue beyond your emotional white knighting?
Cheers man.. you're no better than the trolls who function on the same base instinct. Rise above it. This isn't the stone-age.