I completely agree. The behavior of that officer was
egregious. Engaging in dominance games is stupid and petty; doubly-so when you have weapons, training, and legal authority.
I thought I addressed the stats about danger, though not deeply:
> While police work isn't particularly dangerous compared to fishing or logging, people can't internalize that fact. And in fairness to intuitions, much of the risk is compressed into short moments such as traffic stops.
I know police work isn't particularly dangerous, but I also think that during a traffic stop, it would take superhuman willpower to not be more prone to violence than the situation merits. That's just how people are wired. There might be some training or technology that could ameliorate this, but I don't think it exists yet.