> My wife and I have a profitable business here in SF that would be perfect as a startup
Keep doing what you're doing.
Being VC funded shouldn't be the holy grail - the holy grail is having a business you enjoy doing, that's making you the life you want.
For some the life you want is pitching, raising, getting the kudos of the big numbers, onto the next raise etc.
For some the life you want is the complete opposite and bootstrapping it.
For some it's just all about the technical aspect, coding the next crazy thing.
There's no wrong or right answer in how you get to the 'happy place'.
You know in your heart of hearts what drives you, and what you'll be happy doing.
Me :
I'd been with the money men for a period of years and it's super stressful, board reporting, projections, market analysis etc.
Now I've got my little B2B SaaS startup that's blended a life long passion with my software chops, and our clients love us, we get to work with the absolutely best people in our industry, we're making a difference in their lives, and they in turn pay us money.
It's hard, rewarding, graft. At the end of the week when the money lands in stripe (for me..) there's nothing artificial, there's no projections, there's no-one to pay back, it's a 100% value exchange of 'heres my(our) hardwork, here's a product and you're giving me money for it'.
Sure - could I potentially have gone the VC route (maybe!). Would it be different, hell yes. Would I (probably) earn more ultimately 5 years down the line (sure?). That 5 years would be very, very different...