> I'm writing a book about it :)
That doesn't answer the question... what makes it thoughtless? For that matter, what makes a small urban apartment worse (or better) than a home in an abandoned village? I was certainly happier and had a better time balancing my budget living in a small apartment in Japan than trying to find out how to budget to live in north america.
> > (up to a certain point)
> That's incorrect [...] the most efficient cities are around 50-200k in population
So we agree on the fundamental, you just define the turnover point as 50-200k. I think it is inseparably tied with density - a city of 2million might be the turning point in a land constrained country like Japan, but I wouldn't be surprised in the breakeven in a suburban sprawly north american city is in the 100-200k range you mention.
> If you use the number of municipal workers per capita as a proxy,
This is a poor proxy. Capital budgets might be better, or ratio between median taxation and median income.
> After that, you're starting to need transit, zoning, and all other stuff.
Without breaking down what categories the employees work in, that's a poor comparison. Boise and NYC both have transit, zoning, etc so that alone doesn't make any difference. But for example car ownership rates are dramatically lower in NYC. If it's $2000 extra in taxes to pay for the transit drivers in NYC, but a household has an average 1 car instead of 3, then the NYC residents come out way ahead in terms of budget.
Additionally, you mention zoning - most of the smallest municipalities in the US have much more restrictive zoning than cities in Japan.
> For example, NYC [...] Boise [...]
Can you provide some Japanese examples, since we're talking about Japan?