Now imagine what unelected government officials who play the revolving doors game with the industry they're supposed to regulate can do.
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Now imagine what unelected government officials who play the revolving doors game with the industry they're supposed to regulate can do.
A pardon can cover previous crimes with or without conviction.
Or it could be that some problems are inherently hard. Just solving the motion matrix of a simple robotic arm is an academic research field of its own.
They're really good for type / name finding and boiler plate generation. For larger suggestions as your pointed out they're too wrong to be used as is. They can give good ideas, especially if guided with comments, but usually at this stage I just use Phind.
So we ended up using protobufs over a local MQTT broker and adopted a macro-service architecture. This suited the project very well because it had a handful of obvious distinct parts and we took full advantage of Conway's law by making each devs work the part where their strengths and skills were maximized.
We made a few mistakes along the way but learned from them. Most of them relating to inter-service asynchronous programming. This article put words on concepts we learned through trial and errors, especially queries disguised as events.
This is an awesome use of QEMU! I'm both interested in learning K8s and what goes on under the hood at the kernel level because I do cloud connected IoT stuff, so I'll definitely use that!
Is there any kind of "build the kernel from scratch" project for that kind of stuff?
I'm in no way a JS fan, but this take is wrong. The main reason JS is on the server side is because it makes the transition between server side and client side trivial. Not everyone runs SAAS with billions of requests every seconds.
In terms of not only money and time, but also resources and energy spent, this increase in software productivity it is worth it in most cases.
> That is not the behavior of a security expert.
Your image of "security experts" must come from movies. I know security experts IRL. Their security at home amounts to not use their work computer for personal stuff and 2FA.
These hit piece articles are all the same: very well contrived phrases that stops short of making definitive statements and overly rely on the reader making assumptions as a mean to avoid libel lawsuits.
I know why my mother had me years later, because when my father was angry he would yell at my mother "it's you who wanted another, so take care of him", but with more vicious insults. It turns out that when my mother had her first pregnancy, she was supposed to have a son but had a miscarriage in the toilet. I think this pretty much explains her using me to satisfy her emotional needs all the time; I literally was her emotional garbage can. Telling me how she feels like an ATM for the family, how she's lonely and not taken seriously by others; things that a husband have to deal with, not a child.
So anyway, my sisters began to extended family members about what happened in our house when they were young and also of what happened to me. Like me, it probably took them years to unshame themselves and flip the culpability unto the abusers. It created a scandal I think in the extended family, although always very hush hush, as is usual in small rural places.
My parents probably got a word of what my sisters told about them and then when my oldest sister got her first child, it was actually my parents who stopped talking to them. They never told me why they stopped talking to my sisters, but we figured it out. For some reason that enraged my father and forced my mother to stop talking to them but not to me. After a few years I got tired of seeing them trying to play nice and burning bridges after bridges with other family members and family friends, and I decided to cut them off. Although my sisters never made any kind of ultimatum, I could see how my parents were throwing a wrench between my and my sisters by only talking to me and not to them.
There are more details to this sordid story. It really could make for a full TV drama episode; these people love drama and being the victim. Don't fall for their game.
It was absolutely terrible and laborious; yet necessary. Being not socialized and not able to leave home alone for a very long time made me basically afraid of going outside the campus; I had to learn most life lessons people go through from childhood to early adulthood from scratch. People don't forgive you when you're an adult. Abusers love dependent children, even if they lament all the time that "you cost too much".
One of the things that's hard is separating the actual good parenting lessons from the abuse. From basic hygiene to on how to behave socially. Everything was laced in some kind of humiliation. "I told you this would happen, you think you're smarter than me haha!" kind of routine all the time.
I've never had therapy nor did I seek professional help. The bad experiences I've had with psychologists and other "professionals" that sided believed my parents by default were enough for me. This is not what I recommend, but I just can't let myself be vulnerable by the same kind of people again. It's like asking a severe burns victim to go through a firefighting course with live exercises. I have the chance of being smart and deeply introspective, but this is not perfect and very slow and fraught with painful mistakes. Just like most people should not represent themselves in a court of law, even if they're lawyers, I would not recommend doing that.
I mainly relied on the podcasts, shows and books from mental health professionals and also public forums, although I didn't really participate. Writing this stuff used to hurt a lot with a lot of flashbacks. Basically I did my own research, haha. Putting words to emotions and situations helps a lot, because abusers love twisting words, concepts and using logical fallacies to justify themselves. Also learning that I am not alone and that was happened to me was not right nor justified really helped a lot and was very validating.
I'm not done healing and probably never will be healed, but there is resilience and confidence that comes with successfully surmounting adversity.
Anyway I've handwritten it, I guess the rest is up to their security lol.
But yeah, that's terrifying if people that know me would have it; information is power after all.
In my experience, and not only with that instance, power defers to power. An unruly child's pleadings will never prevail over his parents that are really good at making themselves appear as victims (http://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-miss...). Or as famous lawyer Gerry Spence said, "the gentleman of the bar is there for the other gentleman of the bar".
Also, let's not deny it, I was not a nice and adults would not be nice in return and I would respond in kind. I was a reflection of what was going at home. This makes other adults not want to be nice at all. I can't count the times where I was told "oops, we forgot to bring one for you" or something along those lines.
People often say that I have a unsavory dark humor, but it's one of the best coping mechanism out there.
My earliest memory is my mother spreading food all over my face because I didn't want to finish my plate. I remember my eyes hurting because of the pepper in it.
My father threatened to shoot the family dog on a weekly basis to make me behave.
I could not leave the house alone until I was around 12, thus making me not socialized. To this day in my 30s I have a hard time forming friendship.
They also threatened me on a daily basis to "give me to CPS". Then they actually did it for two years. I wasn't a delinquent or violent mind you, and didn't do drugs.
They would often bring me in front of the school's psychologist and he would make me cry in front of them, always blaming me, never once asking me what was going on at home.
Once I applied for a job that required a high security clearance. I had to write "all the traumas of your childhood and your adolescence". I filled two pages, one trauma per line, and I just told them that I couldn't be exhaustive because of the sheer quantity.
But I think I can stop here, you get the point.
One of the main thing is the inability of standing up for myself. By default and unless proven otherwise, I'm already convinced that if something bad happens then this is my fault. If someone accuses me of something bogus, I just accept the accusation and apologize. This got me in real deep trouble more than once; fortunately not as an adult.
Also not being able to say "no" and being of hurting people feelings to the point of absurdity.
I could do an AMA in this thread if someone's interested lol
This is why I pointed out per capita emissions. If renewables had a bigger proportion, then it would decrease. It didn't. In fact it accelerated.