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I’ve had generalised anxiety disorder for ~12 years and have kept it manageable using some of the techniques you’ve described (breathing and meditation being the main two) however this year has brought some challenges that has really ramped it up and is now causing major issues that I’m struggling to manage.
My doctor was happy to prescribe some for me, but I’m scared as hell about starting them. Side affects aside, getting off them sounds like it can be a nightmare.
> How about 1000 kilos of gold? Or 1000 1 Carat Diamonds? Does that make diamonds good money?
This is a good argument, but I think a better one would be that there is no way the seller is willing to sell any laptop for 1,000 ETH, given that the value of 1000 ETH as of writing is over 1.5m AUD.
If they gave me a quote for the actual value of the laptop in AUD (perhaps 1-2 ETH?) I would still say no, because the inherent volatility in even the most "stable" coins is too high. 2 ETH might be worth 3k AUD today, who knows what it will be when it arrives, let alone when I want to spend it.
Still more expensive than I’d like, and the lack of an AU option sucks, but it’s been great so far, I choose it because I didn’t want to worry about devops, and that’s pretty much been the experience.
I have had a look at render, but didn’t find it as easy as Heroku, It’s probably due to me being more familiar with Heroku.
Everything was far easier than I expected it to be, the only issues I had was with installing python (a few cli Utils required it) but everything else has been smooth sailing and a much better experience than running things on my 2019 MBP
I’m not a huge docker user, but I run it for a few things and again, it was all smooth sailing.
Yes it's tricky, and it doesn't scale well, but that's the price you pay when working with people.
Glad that there was a good outcome, but very sad to see it took getting on Page #1 of HN to be resolved.
Hiring is just too hard. I'm currently building my next product on Typescript. It's much easier to find talent that knows JS/TS, and having the same language across the entire stack cannot be overstated.
The lack of types is also something that I just don't want to deal with anymore.
The JS ecosystem is no where near as stable or mature as ruby's, but it still has everything I need and I have enough experience to avoid the bad parts.
I love ruby as a developer, but not as a business/product owner.
Reg. Boring: It's all going to come down to how YOU define it. Folks on HN (and life in general) is filled with people who can get fascinated and infinitely obsessed with things that most other people would find boring, and make a lot of money doing it.
I have my own small business, and am currently building a second. I'm thoroughly enjoying the technical, product and people challenges that come with it, even though the products themselves would likely make some people eyes glaze over. I don't have a sexy funded startup, I don't post walls of inspirational text on LinkedIn or go on Podcasts. No one really knows who I am. I'd say overall I'm pretty boring, and it's bloody great.
So perhaps the takeaway there is "Make sure you don't find yourself or what you do boring".
Reg. Entrepreneurial: This is the main issue I have with what he said tbh. What does that mean, especially these days? If it means going out on your own and starting you own business, I'd never disparage anyone from giving it a go, but it's definitely not the "smart" thing to do. Statistically you're going to be happier and wealthier by just having a well paid 9-5 job.
Either way, you've got plenty of time to figure out what it all means for you. Enjoy the journey :)
We’ve been lucky that this entire event has, theoretically, not touched us as we never connected GitHub. That may change as more information comes to light.
We’re still strongly considering moving to AWS, and are in the process of getting quotes from vendors.
A strong type system, combined with a GraphQL code generator and typescript, has been an amazing experience as both front and back end developer. Not only do I have types for the backend (for the Things like input args as well as models), I have types for the front end, as well as easy to use hooks to utilise them in React. During development, we constantly fetch the latest schema and check if anything has changed, If so the build breaks then and there, highflying which queries are no longer valid.
The development experience has been amazing, and much more productive than and REST based workflow I’ve used, purely because of the type system.
This whole things has been an absolute s*tshow. Now I'm worried that there is a much bigger issue at play, and we might actually be in a bit of trouble.
There are some really strong downsides (especially after the last 2 weeks) but as a dev team of 1 (mostly) it's been a life saver, and that's enough to overrule all the other downsides.
Having said that, we've suffered our own issues, with cost, latency (we're in AU) and scaling being the main ones.
We're building a new product that we're betting very heavily on and it's all on AWS serverless. I wouldn't choose Heroku again.
I think it was worth it 5 years ago, but as time goes on it becomes harder to justify.
It took me a month of CBT to break the back of it, and everything is (mostly) back to normal now, but it just blows my mind how insensitive people are to those around them. I just don't understand it.
I did upgrade from react-router v1 though... declaring routes as JSON just felt a bit too gross.
For some reason I come back to it 6 months later, and persevered through (not realizing that you absolutely DONT need to fight that damn thing). I kept dying until something clicked, and from then on everything become much easier and I enjoyed every minute from then on.
Same with Demons Souls, I kept dying to Armour Spider, got really angry, frustrated, then something clicked and I broke through, and the rest of the game was amazing.
Not saying this is/would be your experience, and I generally agree that the difficulty does get in the way sometimes, but maybe it's worth it to see if you can break through. I do think Elden Ring is the hardest of all the ones I've played, BUT the open world means it's as hard as you make it, if something is too hard in ER, you can just nope out of there and explore somewhere else.
You can also just play as a spell-caster and the game gets much easier.
If you explore a bit you'll find a site of grace that's directly in front of one of the gates. I also switched to frost damage and it made the fight almost trivial.
Recently played the Demons Souls remake and the locations, enemies and atmosphere was just amazing, I couldn't wait to see what was around the corner.