Have you looked at http://www.techcofounder.com/ ?
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SysAdmin/config (fbsd,obsd,solaris,linux), backend dev (C, ObjC, scheme, common lisp), ios dev
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Given your freelance background, I would imagine you might know more than most first time entrepreneurs? I haven't met any business owners who surrender having a life for their biz (though I haven't met any multimillionaire business owners, either). Perhaps finding patterns in your freelancing and building those solutions into products while continuing the per-project work would be a good in-between to help you decide?