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Yes, people can be persuasive to twist the truth.
And testing is good for arriving at proof.
But what the ancient philosophers didn't count on, is that there is a machine in charge of what gets tested and how, and that choosing what and how things get tested can also be twisted to be persuasive. I can develop and thoroughly test my own drug, and then persuade you that a much cheaper chemical is not tested enough (because I blocked all attempts at testing it), and then I would point to the noble principles of ancient science as to why things need verification.
In other words, the current world is teaching us that really powerful corporations can test selectively about a whole lot of things.
If you welcomed a giant robot in your house that produces 100x as much shit as a human, you don't have the infrastructure to deal with it.
It was never an issue of yes or no, it's an issue of how much.
Most of the time I'm in bitwig, recording things in real time and editing things around, I barely use the midi roll.
I don't find the sink analogy apt. It's more like a grill. It's something specific that you might want to go to, and if you do, then you go there and you do that, outside the kitchen.
You might call it panic to minimize it, and you'd be right to do so if we here were in charge of nutrition for a population; but I'm guessing most of us are in charge of our own nutrition and maybe a family's, so the information to deal with that is pretty valuable.
If you were to find, empirically, that believing that you're not deserving of happiness is more likely to lead to happiness, by all means do that.
But to pose that it is an objective truth is more likely to be a justification for why you're unhappy.
But that's not how it is, "deserving happiness" or "deserving success" are self-defined thoughts.
Did I "deserve" to eat ice cream yesterday? Yes I did, because I decided that I did.
You're conflating these abstract concepts with a more scarcity mindset about whether you deserve a specific job or accolades or whatnot. If that's how you narrowly define your own success, then you yourself are deciding that you don't deserve it (assuming you're not realistically working towards that specific goal).
If you think people only deserve success because they worked X amount, that's a thought formed by social norms and, most likely, what you were told and how you were treated by your carers when you were growing up.
The question is which of those beliefs will be more conductive towards actually achieving success and being happy?
Instead of trying to guess which is true on some abstract sense, adopt one or the other, and empirically live your life by it for a while, and see the results.
That said, these habits don't usually develop as a choice, they're a sort of shield protecting us from deeper issues, formed during difficult times in our lives.
For example, there's girls who gain a lot of weight after being sexually abused, because being seen as less attractive makes them feel safer.
This is why it's so difficult to quit, they're complicated and contradictory.
It is an important distinction. Let me paint an example:
You need to move a huge boulder, but someone tells you that boulder is too big, you're not strong enough to push it. And they're right. But you go and you grab a lever, you use a tool, and you move the boulder.
You did technically utilize your strength, but the take away of the deed, the key component, isn't how much strength you utilized, rather that you admitted that your body's strength isn't enough and utilized a tool.
You could phrase it like this: the willpower to resist going out and getting cigarettes is much easier to perform than the willpower to not grab a cigarette that's in front of you.
However "will power to resist going to the store" isn't really utilizing will power to stop smoking, it's having an effective strategy that relies on knowing how hard it will be for your future self to actually employ that will power if the cigarettes do reach your desk.
I do occasionally make scripts like you mention, they're super fun, handy, and almost impossible to share unless someone else has the same niche knowledge and requirements.
For example, I don't personally know anyone who uses a credit card for things they can't afford, and that seems like a very US thing to do.