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But the actual cost of having a child is food off your plate, second hand clothes, and a stay at home parent.
The problem is that is probably not the lifestyle upper middle class people want.
> collusion ring
Once again, markets for such a commonly desired good are not 5-10 or even 100 participants. They are unstructured webs of opportunities and favors.
The market for housing in a metropolitan area cannot be organized. Everyone is a landlord. If rent spikes to 100k a year, I'm going to throw away shit so I can rent my 2nd bedroom for 50k, and the cycle continues down.
This myth has been reviewed by economists over and over. You can always economize and it naturally occurs on both the demand and supply side. I'm not saying these outcomes are good, but people WILL do them.
Housing demand: live in a smaller place, live with more people, live further away than you want to, live in a van
Housing supply: rent out your extra room, try to build a rental (collect sweet premium)
College demand: community college + transfer, alternative education, maximize credits/minimize time
College supply: offer online degrees, price discriminate (financial aid) ,make cheaper offerings (undergrad only universities, etc).
Health Demand: don't go to the doctor, follow insurance incentives (urgent care vs ER), seek alternative treatment (chiropractors, neighbors, etc).
Health supply: maximize services can be performed by less trained workers (nurse practitioner vs MD, Offer lower end services (Telehealth, etc).
> "unavoidable"
When you see how many choices you have this starts to sound like "I have become accustomed to my quality of life, and I am unwilling to accept economic reality and consider alternatives." This is a natural response to declining standards of living.
My local university offers housing for grad students. At least 50% is unoccupied at any time because there is no pressure for them to fill units. That would just be more work. So getting one is tricks and favors.
That's the java model again. I don't want fearless concurrency, I want intentionally designed threads.
Another key problem they solve is separating the logical representation from the on disk representation. You can evolve and and optimize storage without breaking anything.
The other problem with files is that you have a disconnect between in memory and on disk. You have to constantly serialize and deserialize. Sqlite has quite a bit of info on this: https://www.sqlite.org/appfileformat.html
Of course tinkerers made some tools you can tinker with as time went on, but you don’t have to let those interfere with velocity, just like I will not be using configuration languages.