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And Jetpens. I hate Jetpens too. I can't believe how many...
I guess this is why doctors don't treat loved ones. I was doing outreach, it never occurred to me to go back and check my site with fresh eyes. I wonder how many people I missed helping.
I thought of a tablet app, but the stakes were too high, so it wound up as a laminated paper. You can read about my design decisions here:
Eating it, it had a spritz and fizz like PopRocks. Impossible to describe, but it made me want to go back for a few more pieces before I felt ill.
My daughter never got the scent out of her parka.
Be fully present when you play with them. Really PLAY with them. Kids know when you are not paying attention.
Set firm boundaries. I once read that everything is new and novel for a child, so having firm routines and boundaries are comforting because they have a place that is safe and unchanging. You are not their friend, you are their parent. You might notice that people who try to be friends with their kids tend to spend little time with them...
Be a good and non-judgmental listener when they get older. They need you more at 14 than they do when they're 3, and the stakes are much higher.
Finally, be the person you want them to be. When my son was younger, I was obese, drinking, out of shape, whiney, unkempt and emotionally unstable. One day I realized that it didn't matter what I said, he watched who I was, and my words and actions didn't match up. I quit drinking, started weightlifting, went to a therapist. Funnily enough, these changes launched me out of a rut and into a much more fulfilling career. My son did model me, and now, when he struggles, I can talk to him about overcoming my challenges and it relates.
The most important thing to realize is your time with them is finite and you need to fiercely protect yourself against demands that take you away from giving them your full attention. You cannot comprehend how quickly your time with them at home goes by. You cannot reverse time. Your time is the only gift you have to give to your children.
You could look at the big CRM platforms like Salesforce which require only a modified version of Java called Apex to customize. I find there are a dearth of good programmers working in the platform.
EDIT: Both of these options allow you to work remotely.
I would love to get my hands on an old commercial stat camera as well. And a barn to house all of this stuff in.
Wet scanning is worthwhile if you have a higher-end flatbed scanner like the Epson V700, 750 and 900(?) because they use higher-quality sensors and real lenses.
I almost bought a drum scanner a decade ago but would have to maintain a Mac Quadra for it to run. For large format film, a wet mount scan on an Epson V750 with VueScan software is great.
https://www.analogfilm.camera/scanning/deciding-when-to-wet-...
I have the v750 and scan medium and large format film with excellent results. You can buy Viewscan software from https://www.hamrick.com, made by a NASA JPL engineer, if I remember correctly.
You get a perpetual license (I reinstalled after 12 years and the updated software ran on my old license code). The software can pull detail out of even the worst negative. I cannot recommend this highly enough! I do have SilverFast as well, and have tried the Mac-native scanning, but Viewscan is the best.
If you have slides and you haven't kept the original film adapters, you can find them on ebay or even Amazon. They are simple plastic holders, nothing special.
You can usually select a particular film type if you scan color negatives that will automatically color correct for the film quirks. All in all, a very easy process once you get set up.
Hope this helps!
Can't seem to find anywhere to order them shipped though.
Lock down notifications on all devices. Allow only the most important people and messages (calendar alarms, reminders) to come through. Vibrate only. No red indicators in app icons.
I have productivity rituals that take a few minutes a day: Read your todo list in the morning. Keep a running plaintext work log (I use Logseq). Do a quick review and make tomorrow's todo list at the end of each day.
The two weeks leading up to New Year I will clean up all of my files, reflect, and get ready for the new year's life and work.
Easter is a time of renewal for me. I look at all my accumulated bad habits from winter and rally the self-discipline to start again. The weather is usually in my favor and warm sunny days reinforce my discipline. All the New Years Resolutioners have given up by now, so the resources are more available.
Give sincere compliments. Society is quick to rage and shame, and miserly in recognizing goodness. Everyone has something cool about them, find it and recognize it. It's about them, not you.
G.S. Denning's 'Warlock Holmes' series always makes me laugh out loud with Holmes cast as a rather unstable magician being bailed out by the ever-logical Watson.
The Water Knife by Paolo Bacigalupi foresees dystopian cities and cutthroat water rights along the Colorado river.