> That leads me to think these problems are endemic, and you, yourself, are either really lucky, or just used to the discomfort after so much time. You should treat yourself to some perspective, go out and take an uber home, then ask yourself if it was better.
Your replies lead me to think that you, yourself, are either really sheltered, or just used to the privilege of not having to interact with people you feel like are "below" you. I suggest you go outside and touch some grass or get your hands a little dirty.
I have used Uber in all the places you mentioned as well as transit. I can tell you that I would rather spend $4 on a 1 hour transit ride than $25 on a 40 minute Uber literally everywhere. That will be the typical travel times in NYC, Toronto, LV, SF, Chicago, Tokyo, London etc. for both Uber and transit to go anywhere that's worth taking an Uber for.
Unless I'm wasted out of my mind at 3am or in an unfamiliar area or not in a state to take transit home or the Uber ride is exceptionally cheaper than normal Ubers or faster than transit I will choose the cheaper public transit every time.