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I then discovered a small room that had two unsupervised computers hooked up to some mysterious world-spaning network, and made friends there, ended up leaving Physics for Computer Science.
My first job and every job in my 20s came from people I met in that room getting jobs themselves and calling me to see if I would go work with them, or someone from the previous jobs calling me back. I've never done a real job interview or sent a CV.
But then I formed a family and my social life plummeted. I'm also bad at really nurturing relationships that don't self sustain, so in retrospect I can see how my career ossified since then.
I don't totally regret it because even if I'm now underpaid and underemployed, I earn more than enough for my lifestyle and have loads of free time, so it balances the pang for greater things.
But yeah, networking is very important.
So now let's also not do any research on for example... Social Networks. It's not that they are a relevant aspect of modern life worthy of careful observation. Don't dare look closely into what the overlords are doing.
For example she tends to ask it for outlines instead of the whole thing, mostly to beat "white page paralysis" and also because it often provides some aspect she might have overlooked.
She tends to avoid asking for big paragraphs because she doesn't trust it with facts and also dislikes editing out the "annoying" AI style or prompting for style rewrites. But she will feed it phrases from her own writing that get too tangled for simplification.
Also she will vary the balance of AI/own effort according to the nature of the task, her respect for the teacher or subject: Interesting work from a engaging lecturer? Light LLM touch or none. Malicious make-work or readable Lorem Ipsum when the point is the format of the thing instead of the content? AI pap by the tons for you. I find it healthy and mature.
Systems too focused on defeating corruption as a main objective tend to miss their original intent, and become overly restrictive, to the point of having to rely on rule breaking to actually perform their function.
But once a particular rule is OK to break, every other rule is in jeopardy.
This way you end up with systems like the Spanish access to public jobs: extremely punishing for the participants that are subject to humongous nonsensical competitive examinations, ostensibly to select the very best strictly on their merits, but still rife with corruption.
The other day, two of our juniors came to see me, they had been stumped by the wrong result of a very complex query for 2 hours. I didn´t event look at the query, just scrolled down the results for 10 seconds and instantly knew exactly what was wrong. This is not because I'm better at SQL than them or a Carmack level talent. This is because I've known the people in the results listing for basically all my life, so I instantly knew who didn´t belong there and very probably why he was being wrongly selected.
Trivial, but 10 seconds vs. 4 man hours is quite the improvement.
I'm quite of an introvert. And all my long term friendships have faded or my friends have moved cities or countries.
But around lockdown I took up miniature painting and started watching a bunch of 50 to 100 viewer channels about the hobby. With those numbers the streamer knows you by name by the second time you show up and you soon bond with others in chat.
This got me in contact with the small local hobby club, but also by the time I could attend an in person nationwide convention my family was astounded: dozens of people they knew nothing about were greeting me, stopping for hugs and chats, giving me stuff from their stands...
I've seen both romantic and business relationships emerge in that environment.
And sometimes he does, for example he can talk himself into a promotion while I silently do all the work.
But I always win in the end, because he needs me more than I need him.
-There's a significant amount of duplicates, enough that if your database is big enough you will find one sooner or later.
-Format is variable: There are older 7 digit numbers, modern 8 digit ones, some people pad the 7-digit with a 0, some don't, some consider the CRC letter part of the key, some don't, some just append the letter, some hyphen it. If you deal with manual data entry anywhere, you will suffer.
-Foreign people exist: You start using their passport number, the format of your key is now completely arbitrary, can't validate it. If you were using 8 digit NIFs as keys now some countries use 8 digit passports, increasing your chances of duplicates.
-Foreign people stay: They get a resident card and they use that. Format is almost like NIF but not really so you need to account for that. Someone you registered initially with a passport now has the card and registers for something else with it. Have fun cleaning their duplicated identity from the whole system.
-Foreign people become Spanish: Now they get a NIF. If you have dealt with them for a long enough time, have fun again fixing their records for the second time.
By that time I stop enjoying doing whatever the thing is. Not fun anymore.
People will sincerely praise me and it will feel empty because I know there are millions of better painters, my laptimes are a full second off the ultimate pace, my guitar skills only good enough for playing alone in my office, my leisure programming projects all pointless and abandoned.
I envy two kinds of people: those that have found some thing they are very good at and keep enjoying it forever, but also those that can enjoy something for years even if they are realistically mediocre at it and never improve.
And the money making part is also true for me. I took up miniature painting and quite soon was at the level where people will pay you decent money to paint their miniatures for them. I started getting offers and accepted one, not for the money, probably just out of pride. It was complete hell, I hated the result and every minute I spent painting it. The client was happy, me, I guess I learned my lesson: never again.
I was interested in RPGs and wargames in the early 90s. Even in my relatively backwater hometown there were events, stores or clubs were I could socialize over them.
It was all swept away by MtG within a few months, and I had the misfortune of not "getting it" myself and suddenly being left without anyone to play anywhere.
So I'm still repelled by card games to this day.
I thought maybe ChatGPT would replace me, but so far the same people come so I can prompt it for them.
But I find that so much time has passed that I would need to brush up parts of my high school maths first, and this kind of discourages me before even starting.
I barely know anything about Postgres beyond installation for our use case, backup and recover. I used to know loads about obscure MySQL optimization techniques, fixing broken tables, fiddling with scary parameters and recovering from hair raising situations.
I like my current state of ignorance.
Replacing a T-connector with a broken one to sabotage unpopular classes... Or binary searching it with a terminator to save one you liked...
Learning that pinging Windows 3.1 with a big payload would BSOD it and writing a script to perform a rolling BSOD of the entire lab while sitting in the back...
Sending random insults to random spots on ttys while people read their mail using Elm...
Writing a trojan to steal and then delete the MUD accounts of the dudes hogging the only 2 computers with Internet access available to undergrads...
And being caught and let go with a not so stern warning. Simpler times.