221 karma · joined August 12, 2011
didnt know what it was since I am not american
If you say, I will make time.. then it is even more important to make time for yourself first (In my opinion)
Online dating is very popular in SF, however it is not the only way to find a partner. I never felt comfortable with it, and it took me time but eventually found a person I like.
Finding a good partner is a hard, especially when you are in school anymore. It will take time.
I have heard this from many americans, for some reason my european mindset cannot get why someone would not want shelter or food.. a reliable manner.
Most of these people have not had the opportunity to do any better. It is not their fault.
It is going to be bumpy and you need to have the peace of mind to focus on the present.
Moving to a foreign country to save money could be a good idea, but only if you would like to live abroad. If you do it only for the money your life will be miserable. Also the cost of leaving your local network behind might be very high
in the post PC era Kernels are not as hot as they were in 2000