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Medical professionals, mostly nurses, are spread extremely thin. They are so busy and/or jaded that they often neglect to show any compassion or empathy until they see somebody else doing it. Having a family member nearby also keeps them accountable.
I have seen it personally too many times.
I tried conversing with somebody recently, and they were completely ignoring me. Then I saw the Airpods. Of course. They have music or something else going on.
For now, Airpods = "I am listening to something other than you right now." So yes, if somebody were wearing Airpods as a hearing device, I'd probably not talk to them because of that expectation.
I also am one who thinks of The Hunt For Red October. You already listed the best quote in the movie from him, but the above also makes me giggle every time.
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One of the things that surprised me, being new to telescopes (and certainly never having built one) was that it was deemed better to leave dust on the optics than to potentially damage them by trying to clean them. The dust just doesn't affect image quality.
I had no ide athat would scale up to gunshots however! Very impressive.
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The comradery with the pilot and copilot struck me- they all knew the importance of each other's role. They left their ego's at the door, or at least that's the tale that's being told here, and I like it.
I wanted badly to be a pilot as a youngster, but after reading this, and looking at what I do now, I wonder if I should've been wanting to be a Flight Engineer!
But there's more to it than just collecting data in a dashboard. Having a reliable agent and being able to monitor the agent itself (fore example, not just saying "server down!" if the agent is offline, but detecting the server remotely for verification) would be nice.
There were a lot of things that helped me through. If your wife would ever like to talk to someone who's been through it, even though I'm a guy, she is always welcome to reach out to me.
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The most recent is a Chrome extension that plays a "server down" tone any time the word "critical" appears on our system monitoring web page (Netdata). It plays that tone when the number of "critical" words goes up, and plays a "server up" tone when the number goes down. It's dead simple and works to give me audio alerts so that when I'm hyper-focused on something, I can get pulled out of it by the "server down" tone. It's gone over well with my coworkers as well.
I lost my wife 3.5 years ago. She was in her late 40's. We knew she was going to die, and it was an awful process. We thought we were prepared. But there's no preparing. When it happens, everything inside just shatters. Even 3.5 years later, I find myself just bawling at times, and I consider myself ahead of the grief 'curve' if there is such a thing.
I've come to the conclusion that I'll never be over my wife. Even if I remarry, there will always be that part of me that's hanging on.
You don't really heal. You just find a new balance without that person in your life. You go through the motions until a sense of normal returns. But there will always be part of you that is shattered, never to be whole again. Thankfully, it's not fatal to the sufferer.
*3: Multi-thread: A given function of the program is individually configured
(thread); two or more threads can be executed simultaneously.
*4: Multitasking: A method that enables a computer to simultaneously execute
two or more programs by switching the CPU to each of the programs at certain intervals.
It's funny, the definitions we take for granted now.