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When I was in 6th grade, I used to shoot free throws every night for hours. Just for fun. We had a track and field day at the end of the year and I beat out two guys for first place in the free throw competition who went on to play basketball on our high school team.
I beat them at something that they cared about a great deal and I didn't care about at all, simply by inadvertently practicing a lot.
I would opt to learn how much code they've written and their general programming ability over trivia.
If they are smart and capable, they can dive into the details of any challenge that comes their way.
I run Parallels and Windows 10 on my MacBook Pro and Windows runs smoother in there than it does on my Windows laptop...Maybe that points to superior hardware and integration, but I think it's also because OS X is more efficient than Windows and it's 500 lb sack of goiter it drags around in the form of legacy support for everything in the last 30 years.
I used to be a Windows computer, Android phone user. Now I'm an iPhone and MacBook Pro user. Every ecosystem has issues. I find that iOS and OS X still give you the smoothest ride though.
I'm on 3 slack teams, one with some former co-workers, one for a non-profit that teaches coding and one for a side project.
If any of them suggested IRC I probably wouldn't have bothered.
As it is, I have the desktop client on my Mac Mini, MacBook Pro and my Windows laptop and the app on my iPhone.
It's great. IRC is not. That's my opinion. You don't even give any good reasons why it doesn't work for open source projects.
A history of extreme emotional swings and hospitalization for attempting suicide.
I was the best man at his wedding. Once he got married and had three sons I thought that was the end of that part of his life.
In my mind, no one with three little boys could ever kill themselves.
I was wrong. As soon as his marriage started to fall apart, he did it.
If anyone reading this knows someone that suffers from depression, never underestimate the power of depression.
Today, I have a wife and two sons and I don't miss drinking one bit. But I had to get pretty low to stop. Everyone's bottom is different, I was lucky that I hit mine so young.
I know for years I hated her and blamed her fiercely. In time though, I looked at it differently. While I still don't have much love for her, I really can't place the blame for my brother's actions solely at her feet.
The thing is, it isn't natural or normal to kill yourself when your wife cheats on you, if it's ever normal, especially when you have three sons to watch out for. My brother had problems. He wasn't right in the head and I don't think he ever really was.
If it wasn't his wife, I think he just would have found another reason, because I think he wanted to go.
Aaron Swartz may have hated what the government was doing to him and he may have even stated that was the reason for his suicide, I really don't know. But that wasn't the reason, in my opinion.
If the threat of a prison sentence was reason enough to hang yourself, it would only make sense to at least see if you're convicted first.
My heart goes out to the family, I know firsthand how much it hurts when a family member commits suicide. And I really can't blame the father for reacting that way, I would've (and did) react the same way. Just thought it would be useful to offer some perspective.
For instance, I am at work 9 hours per day 5 days per work every week, I have a wife, two dogs and twin boys that are only two months old. I have a mortgage and car payments, student loans, yet I find the time to work on my startup every night.
Lots of people have told me that it's not a good idea, that I won't make any money with it and I just won't listen.
Hope that helps you.