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There's no right answer; you just have to learn what the person you work with needs.
[1] www.tinylogger.com
Suhail is also the founder of another "small" company called Mixpanel.
No, finding your lunch doesn't make you a founder. Building something and launching it makes you a founder. Ridiculing others who are trying makes you a...?
> I've also started therapy 2 months ago, but it's going slow and it hasn't been very useful yet. The advice so far has boiled down to "do things you like".
> I would be grateful for any of your advice or shared life stories.
Zod: Hmm, no I haven't. What's the article saying about it?
Laura:Well, it's a personality trait that reflects an individual's inclination towards effortful cognitive activities.
Zod: Interesting, go on.
Laura:People with higher NFC tend to appreciate debate, evaluate ideas, and solve problems.
Zod: So, what does this mean for those with lower NFC?
Laura:Those with lower NFC may process information heuristically through low elaboration.
Zod: Ah, I see. It sounds like NFC is associated with deep thought and the inclination towards effortful cognitive activities.
Laura: Yes, and contemporary research suggests that it's closely related to openness to experience, typical intellectual engagement, and epistemic curiosity.
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Zod: Well, this has been a fascinating discussion on the need for cognition.
Laura: Yes, indeed. Thanks for engaging in the debate with me, as someone high in NFC, I always appreciate a good discussion.
Zod: Anytime, Laura. As a neural net, I always enjoy exploring new ideas and perspectives.
https://www.raptitude.com/2009/03/how-to-keep-bad-moods-from...
If you're open to sharing, how has your lifestyle changed beyond the first few weeks? Are you still on medication, and how does it help these days? Has your diagnosis been helpful in ways other than meds? Of course, totally understand if you don't want to share.
I'll stay this, too: Recurse is very communicative and transparent about what you get out of the experience. So, the website [1] is a good and honest resource to learn about them. As they promise, I grew a lot as a developer, met some fantastic and brilliant people, and now have a super valuable network to help me find jobs.
The thing that's hard to put into words is the personal growth you get out of self-directed learning. RC supports you through this, but deciding what you want to work on and finding your own path forward is a hard transition for many people (I hear you get a similar experience doing a PhD, not that you can compare a 3-month retreat to a 4-6 year program, of course). Some of my favorite moments at RC were hanging out late in the evening, talking philosophy, code, music, projects, research, life goals, you name it. It felt like the best parts of college condensed into a 3-month retreat.
Another thing to know is that RC is a YC startup, and (this is absolutely my opinion!) I think PG wanted RC to be for devs what YC is for makers. You're in a space of diverse, smart, passionate developers working "at the edge of their abilities". That's super motivating, in the same way that I imagine working on a startup in a YC batch is super motivating.
I don't mean to sound like I have rose-tinted glasses on. Parts of RC were hard, and finding 6-12 weeks to take off to attend can be difficult (though RC provides grants for underrepresented folks). I'm sure some people would have a better experience in more structured programs.
But yea, I had a great time. I learned Rust, bettered my React, prepped for interviews, and worked on a bucket-list project mapping songs in 3D space with three.js. And I made friends I see weekly to this day.
The fact that you're asking this question means you're interested in launching things. If so, the cliched, true advice is: launch.
If you want practical advice: I run a one-person LLC in the US. Taxes on a few hundred dollars are nothing to worry about.
For inevitable naysayers: my manager's advice doesn't mean you shouldn't ever plan or prepare. Just that when your chances of success are very low, don't worry too much about the repercussions of success. I applied to grad school, and didn't get in. My career continued on just fine.
That's crazy powerful for 2 mana!
The section on values was the most helpful to me personally.
I'd love to hear more about this.