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My question is - can a mainstream language adopt the algebraic effects (handlers?) without creating deep confusion or a new language should be built from the ground up building on top of these abstractions in some form.
You are talking about money. You are talking about girlfriend. You always think about possessing.
If you are fishing for some suggestions I’d first find a good personal trainer and fix the body. At the same time join a career change counseling group workshop.
Don’t let others do things for you. Walk everywhere, use a bicycle. Also cooking kills some time.
Good luck
Implementation details of the process changes from context to context but clear communication is needed in all workplaces, making the implicit explicit.
I still have the urge to fight but I also have realized that fighting is more nuanced than pushing all the time. Maybe the best course of action is to push a bit and wait for the next opportunity. Find people you can trust in the org. Play the game. Or sometimes just do like the others, and chill, put in the minimal amount of work.
I believe a blissful life is possible, even if it seems implausible.
I’m OK with my words causing some discomfort, even some hate towards me if people become happier in the long run.
And if it felt good why other thoughts or lack of thought couldn’t make you happy?
And of course if you are happy why couldn’t you find a way to be happy all the time?
Makes sense?
Micromanaging children is the norm, although we kind of have an understanding that it creates less capable adults. Phones are great tool to control people especially as somehow it is the norm that we _should_ answer phone calls at random times during the day. Children of today suffer this. Also who were grown up before the mobile era, like me, we feel responsible to answer the phone because we love to be loved.
Maybe we should think about how we give and receive love more :)