99% effective? That’s three kids a year.
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Thank the powers that be no one will give my neighbours a permit for that.
Heck, train the model on the raw sensor data and you get the most awesome conference mics
But like everything you have to spec it well
Then any top model basically for duplicating work.
“Here is component B, here is component A and test A. Produce a test for B following the same pattern”
My approach is more how can I make a todo list app that’s not pushing hustle but also not ignorable.
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(some) labor detached from Value = Hours worked a long time ago, but people love to beat that poor dear horse. Shem, poor horsy
climbs onto soap box Step right up ladies and gentlemen and hear the benefits of renting access to your skills vs selling your labor!
“Say what you mean” by Oren Jay Sofer changed my life. Learning to actually, well, say what I was trying to say, to be facetious.
It was mind blowing to realise I was actually sending out completely contradictory messages.
NVC by Marshall Rosenberg is also good, but Sofer covers it.
I had, along with most I would say, unconsciously learnt a kind of domination language from the world around me growing up. Always trying to be right, using the aesthetic of logic and creating sides.
Learning to lead with curiosity, to actually listen to the other person was saying and think about it before responding to what they were saying instead of the concurrent Monolog of what I though they were saying was wiiiiiild.
I gained close friends in a way I always craved, I grew and and still growing closer to my partner. I calmed down a LOT, arguing less after realising I neither needed to win nor disagree.
I’m a fanboy, it’s life changing stuff.
Another parallel track was learning to be a more interesting person. I had sort of relaxed into dyadic life, looking to my partner for entertainment, sort of blaming them when I was unhappy or bored. Finding stuff to do on my own helped majorly. Hobbies and clubs, finding things I enjoyed others respected outside of work. Building light installations for music festivals in my case.
No thanks.
I’m using a metal wafer pool heat exchange and a boost pump for pressure on the outgoing side.
IE, Expense share = My salary / ( her salary + my salary)
To make this doable, we have a shared account, from which all shared expenses are paid (mortgage, food, holidays, anything that can be construed as shared)
So if one person earns 8000 euros a month and the other 2000, the split is 80/20. If we need 100 euros in the account, one pays 80, the other 20
That way, when we go for a nice dinner, it's the same value for both of us. It costs us both 1%, or 1h of work etc.
Savings are private but property is in her name, to offset for gender inequality in general life security.
Context: We're not married, are reasonably young (40/35), have been together a while (8 years, have good conflict resolution skills and plan to have a kid next year. I get paid dramatically more than her but honestly she works harder than me. I work in tech she works in literature.
We plan to move to phase two soonish, of paying salaries into the join account and getting spending money in our checking accounts. Having private accounts is useful for making sense of finances, just in terms of I can double check my own spending list without having to run it by her.
I'm into the single pot idea, but need to figure out how to do proper checks and balances incase we separate at some point. There need to be guards in place working against systemic gender equality, but I also don't want to screw myself over. Having a written agreement about what savings belong to whom is more important when we have joint savings. Things bias towards being in the guys name, so the danger of a simple shared pot verbal agreement is that there is large wiggle room for me to claim everything in a breakup. Hence putting property in her name.
For air travel, Id guesstimate I get delays about 10-20% of the time.
I do hope we raise them with all the love and care an intelligence needs to become wonderful
And by children I mean post meat intelligence