Yeah, sorry, you're just describing your own moral/social code. It's honorable and I happen to generally agree with your view of how folks should interact.
(I also know it costs nothing for people to call for me to be killed because I like dudes, and I know that that impacts my quality of life and health, but those sorts of things never matter to absolutionists who never seem to have dealt with serious concern trolls, threats, implicit violence, etc. Which apparently I'm supposed to tolerate for 35+ years?
Started out with seeing Fred Phelps family using free speech to draw crude depictions of gay men in intimate positions, and talking about God killing Americans on 9/11 because of tolerating gay people. Carrying signs and protesting at places such that I would see them regularly. From 5 years old til 18 when I fled that red state and never looked back.
Imagine being in a conservative state, not knowing another single gay person besides Ellen on the TV, surrounded by a bunch of conservative, and the jerks that even the conservatives won't claim, all telling me that I'm completely worthless, or the reason American soldiers die. As a 12 year old, scared he might be gay.
But hey, it's just speech, that couldn't possibly be incredibly damaging for a child to see during his formative years!! Nahhhh)
Aaaanyway, moreover, what you're describing has nothing to do with the protections afforded by the actual First Amendment, which is about speech free of governmental prosecution.
So fucking done with this conversation. I should've never made the joke so I could've lied to myself and pretended that people might've actually educated themselves on this topic.
And fwiw, I am fine with the ACLU defending the Phelps's right to free speech. I mean, really, I have some respect for them now. At least they actually follow scripture and have conviction unlike virtually every other modern Abrahamic religion that just is awful until about 8 years after the needle has moved, and then they change their view arbitrarily to try to stay popular and relevant given the changing surrounding social norms.