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A good book on this is 'Narconomics: How to Run a Drug Cartel' by Tom Wainwright
For anyone interested, a show recommendation: The Wire by David Simon
I just hope this doesn’t become yet another incident used as an example to slowly erode the freedom and idea of privacy. The current anti-encryption sentiment and reactionary nature of legislation doesn’t inspire much confidence.
On a side note for anyone wanting a truly secure device, you’d have to source the raw materials, create the hardware, software, distribution and oversee the entire process. The old school Ford assembly line for the brave new world. And this assumes you didn’t leave any security holes in the process. Which humans tend to do.
My personal belief if that there really are no rules to how you go about learning a given subject. If reading isn't your preferred method of learning, find an alternative source, on the same subject, in your medium of choice.
Looking for: a scrappy startup that can pay a few thousand a month to grind and hustle with.
Currently: Sr Dev at... Think Mikey mouse... nice name drop but whack ass stack. Not unemployed but looking for something else.
Would like to work with: Anything JS. I’ve worked with the raw, worked with all the lame frameworks, worked for dudes that wanted to create their own lol... I’m serious, any problem you want solved, I gotcha. Think The Wolf from Pulp fiction or Matt in the Martian. Professional problem solver.
Caution: major problem with authority, but if you’re cool we’ll vibe. I just don’t do well with playing house or “business” ha. How about we solve some problems and make some money instead?
The side project itself is essentially a platform to enable post-split parents co-parent effectively.
The two parents don’t feel anything for one another, but are great partners in terms of parenting. There isn’t any attraction, affection, etc. Just a joint desire to enable their child to blossom, succeed, and flourish. Not married, relationship started like any other, baby came, parents raised child.
Both 6 figure incomes from remote jobs.
Although not married, both parents live and pool their incomes together.
Both parents also decided to pool and tackle their debts together (refinance, balance transfers to joint accounts, joint auto loans etc.). Both accepted the responsibilities of that. They were both okay with it because their incomes and debts were practically identical.
Overtime lifestyle inflation became a huge problem and a burden on the relationship. Both individuals come from completely different backgrounds which translates into their different monetary habits which they clashed over...
If separated both would be free to do whatever with their $ Which both have expressed is an overall net positive since they each disagree with how the other spends.
There’s no major toxic behavior. But again also no desire to be together. The dynamic is essentially all of the restrictions that come with being in a relationship with none of the positive aspects except for the stellar team work when it comes to parenting.
The child would, upon separation, leave and reside 4 hours away. There are multiple avenues here. One is stay as a family unit but leave for a place my friend personally does not want to move to. Split and follow the child considering remote work and income allows it. Or split, co parent, and live elsewhere (which is what friend would’ve done otherwise considering their situation)?
Should they stay together FOR THE CHILD? Yes or no and why is what my friend is really wondering.