629 karma · joined February 22, 2017
I also live in 1.5 mil city and I haven't got used to how many there are after moving here almost a decade ago.
I don't think I heard of a single such story in my life. Is it a thing?
Not entirely true, there is a reverse-parabolic correlation [1] After certain income level, number of children per family increases.
Middle class is shooting itself in the foot economically by having children, that's why there's such correlation.
1. https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Number-of-children-top-h...
1. State the disagreement clearly and politely
2. Show the willingness to engage in as-objective-as-possible argument (in a smaller group, if feasible)
3. Always remember that ideas are produced by personalities, with all the background going with it. F.e. if I feel strongly against something but cannot effortlessly explain why, disentanglement work is on my side (in between p.1 and p.2 above).