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Yes.
You're asking me to believe that most people will betray their principles, commitments, vows, etc when it becomes convenient.
I have no evidence that that is the case.
If anything, there are numerous examples in literature of people staying faithful for years apart.
My hypothesis on this is that this belief that people will cheat is projection on the part of people that would.
> But, if they are talking to them daily, which is what the post above was about, then IMO, something is wrong with our relationship and I should be worried.
This is exactly what I'm talking about. In that scenario, there is nothing wrong with your relationship. But yet you say there is.
> Of course maybe you just know special types of people I've never met.
Right back at y'all.
I’d even go as far to say as people that can be tempted this way do not have as strong relationships as they think they do.
But given this
> The idea of a sexual relationship with her is just gross, though, in the “I’m screwing my sister” sort of way.
There is no temptation
Having a high libido does not translate into wanting to have sex with your close friends.
> I have certainly known men with higher libidos than me and I find a great many of my female frinds and acquaintances attractive
> level of control over feelings that normal people do not posess
Normal is only normal within a culture. I've yet to see any evidence that this is biologically inherent to human beings.
> This completely cuts against everything you wrote above about how it's possible to separate friendship and attraction to the appropriate sex(es).
Given that the original claim is
> When Harry Met Sally was right. Men and women can't be friends. Eventually the sex gets in the way.
I don't see how this contradicts anything. The original claim is that sex will inevitably get in the way. The person you're replying to is claiming that there are women that they will not inevitably become sexually attracted to.
Might be true for you, but this is not true in general.
I doubt we'd be able to do that today at at least the same efficiency.
You have no evidence that this was accidental
Australian English and American English and British English are mutually intelligible.
You might as well be claiming that Old English and modern English are the same language.
The idea that "written Chinese" just happens to be identical to written Mandarin whereas written Cantonese is also the same and we actually translate our spoken words into a different written form is just historical revisionism and linguistic chauvinism.
The plain reality is that modern written Chinese is the way it is because the CCP standardized Mandarin as the national dialect.
She was literally one of the first employees.
There are only so many places you can park your money
You can't just say that and then not say why you think that.
This reminds me of what George said to Jerry in The Deal on Seinfeld:
> Jerry: Spending the night. Optional.
> George: No, you see? You got greedy.
Making the policy discretionary will ultimately make it like an "unlimited vacation" policy where it actually doesn't happen but the company gets to say that it's their policy.
This event is meaningful to women.
If you don't possess the capacity for the empathy necessary to intuit why this is meaningful, then I don't think someone explaining it to you will make a difference.
It's been the case since time immemorial.
Has there ever been a time where that wasn't the case? Maybe for a very brief period during the past ten years due to social media.
Who needs to go back in time? We're literally still abusing them today.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dakota_Access_Pipeline_prote...
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dakota_Access_Pipeline_prote...
We're literally still violating treaties with them.
So's Hawaii, but you don't see anyone giving a damn about that.
Native Hawaiians: Am I a joke to you?
Native Americans: First time?
this raises the question of: what happens when those environments change?