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1. Try to take as much parental leave as possible initially. The baby stages are so much fun and no matter how much time you spend with them before going back to work, you'll wish there was more.
2. Don't expect to be able to watch your child and work simultaneously. I have done it in limited fashion (kid is sick/daycare closed etc) and it can be very hard. This mainly goes for the younger years (< 5).
3. When you travel, dedicate time to Skype/Facetime with your child.
Congrats on becoming a parent! It's seriously a blast and I wish you and your wife the best of luck!
Here's a novel idea, how about instead of directly resorting to "Your code sucks." we instead say something like "I think there's still some work to do here. Here's the way I would have done this." It's really not that hard to give constructive criticism.
1. Go back in time and don't go to college
2. Get roommates
3. Don't have internet. Ration electricity.
4. Sell your car and steal a bike.
5. Don't eat.
and finally, move to Montana where your dollar goes further. This all seems to be relatively in the ballpark of what's commonly suggested when people on here rightly complain about CoL.
I have gigabit fiber so that might help a little with the overall experience but I'd be willing to pay a good amount of money for this as a service.
I mainly subscribe to woodworking and programming channels. It's generally something where I'm hoping to learn new skills and techniques, and for that, YouTube is incredible.
I also purchased my first home last year (100 years old) and channels like This Old House have been incredibly helpful with many maintenance tasks.
I find it best to assume that everyone is remote at all times. My experience with the partially remote team was that people in-office would talk face-to-face more often and then would not relay effectively to the rest of the team.
There's still the problem of phone calls having the same effect but we use Slack and Google Docs often enough that most of our conversations are there for everyone to see/search.
Be sure to ask the team what is working for them and if they have any preferences. I find it best for everyone to be up front about these kinds of initiatives. Something that's a minor annoyance can grow into a real problem down the road. Best to lay everything out early and discuss as a unit.
Best of luck! Working remotely is extremely liberating.
Keep up the great work!
I worked semi-remotely for a mid-sized company with ~100 IT/developers and those that were working from home were less-involved from a workplace perspective.
I now work for a small company (< 60 employees) that's entirely remote and it works wonderfully. Everyone is on a level playing field and all processes are designed to support it.
I would imagine most would go to daycare during the work week (our 1 year old does on days when my wife works).
Are you working for yourself or remote for a company?
I'm about 5 months into a remote job for a health company and I love it so far.
I suffer from migraines semi-regularly and have at separate times taken Maxalt, Imitrex, or generic OTC migraine meds + caffeine.
They have manufacturing facilities in the UK that ship to Germany.
Many good problems there regularly.