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They are also other signs that hint towards compatibility such as wealth, class, education, social anxiety you get a feel for it over time. I would trust that over what you see in a profile. Not that you can’t lie on those just that it’s much harder. Plus The dark things people tell you after a drink or 2 would often be enough to get one cancelled off the internet.
Also keep in mind that a lot of people screened themselves out just by not going out. All those gals that don’t have anything money, live with their parents and go to bed at 9 or have no friends. You won’t find them at the bar but on tinder you might
All my male friends are either from college or work, and like you said they tend to forget you if you don’t follow up.
If she wants a doctorate she has to be married before she enters the workforce.
She has time for maybe 1-3 long term relationships before she ages out of childbearing age.
So yes women have more options but they also have less time to pick the right one.
Also 200k is the new 6 figures, 100k doesn’t cut it anymore
Compare that to 50 per day out of a pretty poor pool and stiff competition and your odds are not looking great.