A shallow clone gives you some `n` commits of history (and the objects that they point to). Using LFS allows you to have some `m` commits worth of large files.
If you want a completely distributed workflow, and have infinite local storage and infinite bandwidth, you can fetch all the large files when you do a normal `git fetch`. However, most people don't, so you can tweak this to get only parts of the local file history that you're interested in.
Indeed this is a trade off that requires some centralization, but so does your proposed solution of a shallow clone. This adds some subtlety and configurability around that.