I hate that because we understand we have a responsibility. I just wanted to share cat pictures discretely with my friends. </lazy>
Ultimately you shouldn't feel pressured by what other people ask of you. The choice of what to do and how to feel about it is always yours. When other people say it's your responsibility, like even if I had said that, that would just be me trying to convince you. That means nothing when you choose how to feel about it.