That mindset strikes me as completely insane to be honest (btw, I damaged my parent's car as well in my first year of driving).
Why not something like that you have to start driving for a few years with a small car (like a kei-car of some sorts), and then you can graduate to a compact. And then after six years or so, you can drive something heavy and/or fast. I would be so much more at ease in traffic, knowing that those deathtrap crossovers, trucks, and SUVs around me aren't piloted by a texting teenager.
I actually learned to drive first on a ride-on lawn mower when I was barely heavy enough to keep the dead man switch active: hit a bump and the mower would switch off. Then I graduated to ATVs and finally to the farm pick-up truck when I was 12 or so. By the time I had a license, I was a quite capable and reasonably safe driver. Honestly, I think it may be best to learn before you are a teenager when you are still scared of the big machines.
My first car cost my £50 (and £1100 to insure..). As it was 20 year old heap of junk, every other month something would break, and I'd have to look up how to fix it and then go down to the scrap yard with a socket set, £20 in my pocket and pull that part off a scrapped car.
I learnt how to fix cars and I never had a crash because I knew it would mean certain death in that danger machine.
https://grassrootsmotorsports.com/articles/soccer-moms-reven...
If you have the money for a Tesla then you would be crazy not to put your kids in one. Ideally you would want to put it in some sort of valet mode to limit the performance.
That's quite a bit below best in class: http://www.euroncap.com/en/ratings-rewards/best-in-class-car...
If you have the money for a Tesla you then you would be crazy not to put your kids in a Volvo (if safety is your priority).
An accident as this is likely the cause of driving too fast for the conditions, so that'd probably require attending such a seminar.