Where is it, then? Where is the final, perfect Lisp that's so easy to write?
What you seem to be saying is that being smart automatically makes people good at language design. And you are just dead wrong. Being smart may make you a good language implementor, but there's little correlation between that and the kind of skills you need to be a good language designer. Some of the worst languages in the world were designed by smart people.
It's a big problem when your users are contemptuous, because that means they don't need your project.
The Arc users on arclanguage.org don't seem that contemptuous.
So instead of doing things with the language, they do things to the language.
That seems a good sign to me. Munging the language is what you do with Lisp, like numerical calculations are what you do with Fortran. So what this means to me is that the users are real Lisp hackers, using the language as Lisp is meant to be used.
Plus I explicitly said that at this stage I'm mostly interested in the core language, and that I want to hear new ideas in that department.