SpaceX is aerospace: ~$12B valuation vs ~$600B Aerospace & Defense industry size, and Tesla is automotive, $28B vs ~$750B Auto + components market.
Note that Uber, AirBnB, SpaceX and Tesla are probably the biggest unicorns out there.
But you are raising an important point - many industries will be redefined when new competitors are using IT much more heavily. Still, that growth mostly comes from existing players, and I believe the growth of the IT sector itself is limited now.
[1] https://eresearch.fidelity.com/eresearch/markets_sectors/sec...
edit: typos, minor clarifications.