Which site? I searched for "female tor devs sexual claims" on DDG & Google and didn't see anything relevant beyond a link to this thread.
https://twitter.com/puellavulnerata
https://twitter.com/postessive
https://twitter.com/isislovecruft
As well as https://twitter.com/maradydd (not a dev afaik but associated with Tor?)
This is also pretty clear: https://www.reddit.com/r/TOR/comments/4mkh8j/confirmed_jacob...
I like a lot this kind comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/TOR/comments/4mkh8j/confirmed_jacob...