If you look at common things which need to be fixed/replaced on a five-ten year old car, most of the things are also found on EVs:
* Brake pads, lines, discs etc.
* Suspension
* Steering
* Driveline, bushings, bearings
* Sensors (a big issue, esp. ABS/ESP sensors)
* Electrical wiring
* ECU/firmware/software errors
* Tires
And just a few ICE specifics, which are all on the cheap end compared to the list above:
* Exhaust system
* Timing belt
* Battery
* Spark plugs
And then there's the EV boogeyman: when will your battery need maintenance, and ultimately replacement?
Also, your comment on "the best EV vs the best ICE" is completely besides the point. We could make an ICE vehicle last millions of kilometers without maintenance outside of oil changes etc., but it would be expensive, heavy and bad for the automaker's business. Same arguments apply to EVs. Tesla doesn't profit from having cars that last twenty years with almost no maintenance required.