So, you are saying that every tablet that is now released is released because of the iPad? Apple is the big innovator here? That's so ridiculous. It takes more than 2 month to build a tablet. There have been tablets before. There has been multitouch before. Combining the technologies of today is not the genius innovation you think, it happens everywhere.
Second, you are living in this strange alternative world, it makes me sad. Of course there will be people not buying the iPad because it can't do flash. If you don't think so you are just ignorant to reality. About the Desktop OS: There is actually no reason to built a good Tablet with a multitouch friendly Desktop OS on top of it.
It's ridiculous. You are just repeating what Apple likes you to think. Can't people take an objective view on things? Just because Steve Jobs says that Flash is bad and that you shall not have a real OS, doesn't make it true!
People won't throw away their iPhone. But in a not so distant future every major OS for smartphones will support Flash (and Air), except for the iPhone. Adobe will have nice tools to build platform independent apps and games from one source. So, eventually developers will start to make those apps for the majority of phones, not for the rather small market share Apple has. And (hopefully) people won't buy the next iPhone but the next non-Apple phone, as Steve fucks the customers on a daily basis and every apple customer is just begging for more.
Of course Apple doesn't want Flash: - They don't let app competition on their major platform, the want the money for themselves. That the customers lose choice is well accepted by most apple customers.
Of course they don't want the real Mac OS X on the device: - The iPhone OS is so tightly integrated with the appstore that literally everything you want to do, you will have to buy from the appstore.