That empty feeling where you have so much to do, but you end up just ticking over without any ambition or drive.
How do I fix?
That empty feeling where you have so much to do, but you end up just ticking over without any ambition or drive.
How do I fix?
It is compared and contrasted with tamas (lethargy/sloth) and satva (equanimity and poise).
You should check out the Vedanta Treatise[0] if you're interested further.
Disclaimer: studied Vedanta under the author in India.
[0] https://www.amazon.com/Vedanta-Treatise-Eternities-Parthasar...
If you pushed me, I'd say that it provided me with a solid set of first principles from which value judgements could be made. It seems like I was 'living randomly' before.
If you're interested, check out this talk[1] by the author. Then if you'd like to visit the Academy you could shoot a mail to visitinfo@vedantaworld.org
[0] www.vedantaworld.org
[sorry: don't have link of Amz in India]
So a list forces me to document what I need to do, and work through it methodically.
Having this allows you to concentrate on one thing at a time and avoid 'analysis paralysis', which make you more efficient at some tasks. For example:
Task: 'Clean the house'
1. Grab big garbage bag
2. Go from room to room and put garbage in bag.
3. Put garbage bag in outside bin.
4. Grab large basket.
5. First room: put items that do not belong in room into the basket.
6. Subsequent rooms: Items in basket that belong -> dump somewhere in room. Items that don't belong in room -> in the basket.
....
etc.
Using the parent's example, 'Clean house' is too big, 'Clean living room' may even be too big. My approach might be something like:
* Living room:
* Remove garbage
* Put dirty dishes in kitchen
* Put stuff that doesn't belong in tote
* Put everything that does belong on shelves
* Vacuum
I like each thing to be an 'accomplishment' in itself -- however trite -- because there is a meaningful result (even if no one but me cares or notices).Or, I try to ease myself into working by starting with a list, but start feeling overwhelmed as the list grows longer.
When this happens, I more often than not end up procrastinating. It usually takes a critical deadline and an unhealthy amount of panic to break the deadlock.
* Take out the trash
Then 5 minutes later, congratulate yourself for getting your entire todo list done. If you are really ambitious, you can make a similarly pithy list for tomorrow, but do not do it until tomorrow; if you're anything like me that will lead to burn-out.
After a week or two, graduate to a list with two items on it. Don't worry about a month from now. You can reevaluate then.