A government mandate requiring companies to provide paid leave forces (i.e. opposite of choice) everyone else to pay for it.
Again, that's society.
And I see no problem with a government mandate for it. Because that provides "choice" for the new parents. Your way usually denies them that choice.
It's not hidden at all. I am quite privileged as are all of the people in first world economies of which we speak. You (yes, you) are among the top 1% wealthiest of the worlds population.
I have no idea why the children of my comment assume a very, very false dichotomy of working through your child's childhood or becoming destitute. Now, more than ever, there is a huge swath of available and acceptable behavior between those two extremes.
just to flesh this out further, could you provide some examples of what you mean?