> We ought to have a standard version of the reject! code precisely because it's so difficult to get right.
No, it's easy to get right in any specific case. It's iterating over a dang list, it's the first thing you learn how to do as a programmer. It's only hard to get right if you're trying to solve it for every use case with a single interface.
Essentially: you are taking two different algorithms and trying two switch between them behind a single interface. Meaty if-statements behind flags are an indication this is happening. It's cool of you want that but put it in a library and give it a GitHub per.
An example: I don't use a library to merge attributes on objects. I cut and paste one of a few snippets or write from scratch. Sometimes you want to mutate an object, sometimes you want a copy, sometimes you want to shallow copy or keep a reference to the parent. I could write a nasty complicated function that intelligently solved "the problem". But all that does is bundle together a bunch of different solutions to different problems and make it hard for me to understand which one it picked.
Edit 2: I could be persuaded that what I'm saying is just not Rubyish. I'm a JavaScript programmer (after many years of Ruby) so maybe there's some truth in that. I do think that distancing ourselves from the mechanics of list manipulation can be bad for our code quality.