In short, ArrayFire is handling a lot of the core GPU algorithms for me, and that's its main contribution. This prevents me from needing to implement these myself, because this is itself a full time job. Much better to put a hard cutoff point and work on the high-level questions, rather than spending time trying to support three different architectures by myself. There is basically no good way of working at that level that isn't ugly and very very painful. I am glad to have someone else do that for me.
The benefit is that I can take better advantage of their platform independent and performance tweaks for individual GPUs (which is still a lot of work with the state of GPU programming today). This leaves me to focus on higher level concerns that are more relevant to the APL programmer.