In all of those cases, you're probably passing a reference by value, semantically. ("Probably", because you didn't specify which languages, so I'm making an educated guess.)

The usual litmus test is having two objects (or ints or whatever), write a fn `swap(a, b)` where the two are swapped after the call is over. Can't do that in Java or Go or Python or C; but you can in e.g. C++ and you sorta-can in Lisp. In C++, you'd see int& (or whatever) show up in the arguments of swap().