I am unable to understand what is misogynist about renting strippers. Strippers are professionals like many of us here and also get paid hourly like some of us for their skills.
I guess it wouldn't be misogynist if everyone at the office felt free to hire themselves sex entertainment regardless of gender.
But that's allegedly not the dynamic here.
I am not sure why everyone should feel comfortable with everyone else's choices. Do people think everyone should like the movie that most people are going for ?
How people feel is irrelevant; but based on federal law, the US Constitution, whatever local laws there may be & decades of judicial precedent, what you describe would expose any US employer to an enormous amount of liability. Its not normal or legal--& it can be very expensive.
You should probably just stop commenting at this point.