A more accurate reality: https://xkcd.com/538/
Job lost. Father died without you seeing him. Thousands of dollars gone in lost ticket, reservations. That's more than enough for 99% of people. The other 1% don't even try to enter USA
He didn't get hit with a wrench, but rather got all his stuff seized by the FBI.
I don't know if you've ever been hit with a wrench, but those two things are nothing alike. Starting with the fact that the FBI might not have gained access to the data in your story.