I think most people read 1) to educate themselves and 2) for pleasure. This describes me, although I probably read for 2) more than 1). Some people also read to appear intelligent, or so they have unusual things to lord over others, which might be a component of 1).
We don't always look up the definition immediately, but eventually we do and write it down and then we review the words later until we can remember it's definition.
Wow: that's far more discipline than I have. If I find a word I don't know, I usually look it up and write it in the margins of the book (if it belongs to me). It took about six repetitions of looking up the word "candid" when I was a teenager for it to sink in.
One nice thing about looking things up is that eventually the words stick and you no longer have to look up very many, unless they're technical.