> What is your gender?" The multiple-choice options were "Male", "Female", and "Transgender"
What would a "professional and politically neutral as possible" company, in your definition, do in this case? I would think, at the very least, an "Other" field would be a 1000x improvement from a "Transgender" option.
> I would be skeptical that we are getting the full story here
People like you (and the kind of reaction you are describing here) are the reason why more people don't report discrimination and harassment issues.