How does investing in a stock benefit a company unless you are buying from that company directly?
The difference between regular money and crypto money is that the upkeep of the former is mostly tied to physical reality and doesn't influence the value of money itself. In case of the latter, however, all that energy waste is a) completely arbitrary, and b) directly tied into the value of money (the more power you burn, the more you earn, and one party burning hard means other have to do as well, for the blockchain to stay secure).
Or in TL;DR: cryptocurrencies directly incentivize wasting energy. Regular money does not.