In many languages: arr[idx] = nevalue
In Haskell: a blog post or two, telling me how great all the new ways are because of the type system.
I know I'm sounding very contrarian, but it really is a frustration I have with the language. I've heard several times that once you manage to use it a lot you find these unambiguous universal methods. I just feel like getting there first requires digesting all of these blog posts.