Or it could mean I was exaggerating the extent of his choking. Why even have a word to mean "not exaggerating" if you're going to use it to exaggerate?
>It always bugs me when people "correct" this totally fine use of language. We don't freak out nearly so much about similar words like actually, really, totally, completely, absolutely, etc being used in the same way.
Because of a) insensitivity to those who have a hard time parsing tone, and b) none of those have a metasyntanctic function that specifically speaks to how the words should be interpreted.
By contrast, we do freak out when people misuse deliberately technical language e.g. 0400 hours to mean 4pm.
>It's no big deal. Metaphor is a core part of our language.
And being insensitive to the needs of those different from us is a core part of being human. But there are better and worse ways to be human, and better and worse ways to make metaphors.