> You did not say that women do less paid work.

I also did not say that MEN do more paid work.

Somehow, you didn't make that insinuation. You only made one towards women, and it was negative.

In poker, this is known as a "tell".

Any rational person would make the assumption that I was talking about paid work in both cases. Yet your conclusion was that I was saying something nefarious about women, while ignoring that the same logic would also apply to men.

The problem is that your position is female-centric. You see any discussion of mens issues as hostile and toxic. You demand that any discussion of womens issues cannot question basic assumptions. You take calm, even-handed comments as hating women.

It must be scary to live in such a hate-filled world.