I explicitly used the example of people with a medical condition. This comment accuses me of saying they're "untrained dogs".
Which is a typical borderline re-phrasing, extreme accusation, false accusation, etc.
> I considered the possibility that I misinterpreted you here
And firmly rejected any calm, rational, analysis of my comments.
That's part of the disorder.
> ou’re talking about serious, life changing journeys that require a lot of help and support along the way, and paying them the same respect as taking the car through the wash.
I'm telling you what the end goal is. What you should work towards.
And as the typical borderline, you don't see that. You take the extreme position that I'm saying it's trivial to get to the end goal.
> I’m not blind to my impact on other people.
You're blind to your extreme comments here. You're dumping boatloads of emotion on my for things I didn't say. You're projecting your emotions onto me.
> I’m not splitting with you
Yes, yes you are.
> ... it’s enough of a display of malempathy
i.e. any attempt to make you responsible for your behavior is rudely rejected. Any suggestion that you can get better is rudely rejected.
Because you're in pain.
Again, your pain is your issue. When you project your pain onto other people (like you're doing now), they don't like it. And if they say they don't like it, you double down on the projections and accusations.
I understand your trauma. But... if you decide to project that onto others, that is an issue. It is immoral, and everyone else is correct in labeling it, and with refusing to put up with it.