So don't take it personally.
Same reason why men and women watch porn even when they are in a fulfilling relationship. Most people aren't in a relationship with a sexual object constantly available at the snap of a finger. Masturbation helps bridge asymmetries in libido and availability. It's not personal.
Anyways, I agree with the other commenter. If you're feeling that virginity is winding around your self-identity, then I think the healthiest thing to do is pay for some sex. You'll be in a better mental place.
If you've actually approached hundreds of women without any success, that's pretty concerning. But I have a hard time believing you've actually directly approached that many women without any results. For example, people more likely err on the side of being too indirect and then assuming it's rejection when the other person doesn't do the escalation for them.
Seriously, women are not worth the pain you're feeling. I'm not the biggest stud, by I've had short relations and quite long relations, and no matter what, the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
Look into MGTOW (men going their own way). There's a lot of wisdom in that community. Go to mgtow.reddit.com and read the sidebar.
All the best brother. Please don't do something stupid!
At the end of the day, if you really want to just have sex just pay for it like everything else in modern society and get it off your chest. Done.