I don't find Apple designs hostile at all for Objective-C and Swift developers, their main developer customer base.
Pure UNIX server software was never the developers target market of neither NeXT or Apple.
UNIX compatibility was always just a means to port UNIX workstation software into their OSes, not as a means to write UNIX server software.
Just like Microsoft did in the past and is now doing it again.
Their developer target market are the ones using their sancioned languages and SDKs.
It is true, however that those developers I know who have a choice (ie. because they don't have a huge professional investment in Apple's platforms) are seeking alternatives to macbooks for their next replacement machines.